Supporting Children in Divorce: The help of siblings

Throughout my parents divorce, I was constantly between houses and felt every aspect of my life was constantly changing. The only thing that stayed with me was my sister. At this time my sister was 7 years old. And although she could not offer the same level of support that a therapist might offer, she was living the same experience that I was. Of course we did not always feel the same emotions towards things or react the same to different aspects, but she was a rock for me when I needed to talk to somebody who gets it, she was my therapist.

We often talked at night about what was happening and changing in our lives. Sharing our opinions on each parents actions and how we felt about living in 2 places. We both feel free to talk to one another if something is on our mind and I encourage you do to the same if you can. I am extremely glad that me and my sister move between houses together as i feel the experience of divorce bought us closer together. If you are struggling, try talking to your siblings. They have offer a different view on the situation as well as a different coping mechanism.